The Modern Woman’s Guide To Asking A Guy Out
You may be ultramodern and chic, wear the latest designer dresses and footwear, but are you really woman enough to ask a man out for a date with you?
With changing times, the rules of romancing and dating have also changed. It is no longer cool to wait for a hot hunk to make the first move. As a confident and fashionable female; men look up to you to ask them out for a swell date.
Men love the chic contemporary woman of today – brash, cool, confident, intelligent and beautiful, a lethal combination. Approaching a guy for a date puts you in total control of your romantic liaisons. Many men find it very appealing when females make the move to kill. Men of today have accepted the fact that women are more or less equal to them in all spheres of life, if not better.
Some tips to ask a dude for a date:
Head for the Bar: If a handsome hunk catches your fancy, buy him a drink. As you’ve made the first move, it is up to him to reciprocate your advances.
Propose an Outing: Whilst you’re talking to him, casually ask him about his weekend plans and propose something like watching a movie or visiting a dance club together.
Invite his Gang to meet yours: If you find it awkward to ask him alone, try to invite him and his friends to meet your associate’s circle. This will help you both to mingle well within your respective comfort zones. Just make sure your gorgeously ravishing friend is absent at the meet.
Drop a Hint: If you find it too uncomfortable to invite a guy out, drop subtle hints like, ‘Have you seen the latest popular play? I would love to see it.’ Even after this if your dude remains mum or doesn’t pounce on the opportunity, he is either not interested in you or he is too dumb for dating.
Research and Play: This is for dummies. Be informed about the guy that you’ve fallen for. Find out whether he is already committed to someone else or happily married.
If you ask a dude out for dinner, lunch or a drink, you can always turn on your best flirtatious behavior. Make good eye contact, smile generously and make him feel that you are totally charmed by his personality. Be hard to get, don’t give him the idea that you are readily available for him. Men like challenging and mysterious women. Try to find out his hobbies, interests and culinary tastes.
Never ask him about his financial position, even though you are desperate to know. Get to know him better and then slowly try to probe about his monetary value. Some men appear to be classy and full of style, but they may actually turn out to be broke, and there are those who do not flaunt their money, but are quite well off.
As a parting line, let me warn you that men are after all well bred animals. Asking a man out on a date is tricky business. Be cautious, you are about to step on his ego, take care to tread lightly.